LEARN + JAPANESE / Note 150 JLPT N4

Doing Favors (〜てあげる・てくれる・てもらう)

あげる, くれる, and もらう, which you already know for giving and receiving things, attach after a verb’s て-form to describe doing or receiving a favor, an action given rather than an object.

In Real Life
These two sentences describe the exact same event from opposite sides, exactly like plain あげる and もらう did with objects. てあげる puts the giver of the favor as the subject; てもらう puts the receiver as the subject, with に marking whoever did the actual favor.
In Real Life
てくれる always centers the speaker, or someone close to the speaker, as the one benefiting, which is why 予約してくれました naturally implies “for me” even without saying so directly. Compare 予約してあげました, which would instead describe the speaker doing a favor for someone else.
In Real Life
Careful with あげる toward someone above you socially, saying してあげました can sound like you’re bragging about the favor. くれる and もらう carry no such risk, which is why they’re used more freely across all levels of politeness.

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